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Why is it that.....

Posted April 17th, 2008 at 09:19pm

....after being in a relationship that went BAD you still miss your X. No matter how many times they did you wrong you still miss them....no matter how many times you did the "break up to make up" thing....after its all said and done your heart is still broken..not because of the break-up but b/c they are GONE.... out of your life...

I honestly think that it comes from being sooooooooooo comfortable in a bad situation that thats what you come acustom to....What do you think?

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OoohWeee

Female, 25, Bartow, FL

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That makes a lot of sense to me.....



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stlfemme

Female, Age Private, Belleville, IL

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If u think about it, U know its no good for u but u still yearn for that comfort zone. When its gone then u feel lost. U not really lost, just stop and think about where you want to go from here. As you can see i have been there LOL



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NikkiNik

Female, 27, Chicago, IL

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You are so right, I think a lot of people are comfortable like u said as well as not wanting to go back to the dating scene. Dating can be cool but it depends on what u are looking for. Some people like myself like to be in long relationships, I dont like to constantly meet different people then weed them out based on a wrong impression or just them not being the one for me. Its a process and it has its ups and downs. I think a lot of people just dont feel like going through that whole or deal, because it can also consist of rejection.



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krazykoo...

Female, 27, Middletown, RI

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Usually when u find yrself missing sum1 u tend not to think about the bad times...then when u get back with them reality sets in and u remember WHY u broke up in the first place.
when u fall in love with someone yr heart gets accustomed to the way that person makes it feel-its like an addiction; u know its bad but when u take it u feel better until u cum down from the high. and just like an addiction u have to completely stop, otherwise u confuse yr body and yr mind.
u also have people that have been in so many bad relationships that they just give up and decide to stick to the evil they know, they dont want to go through the whole "getting to know you" process. u even have women who think if they grl aint horrible to them they dont love them.
But never give up on love, its unpredictable, annoying at times, but even more beautiful than the first flower of spring.

Love and be loved



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