hpplcky's Blog

I have found that men seem to enjoy the chase more than the catch...It irrates me so much when I start dating someone and they start falling head over heels, they really don't , they, meaning Gay males, seem to fall faster than a straight male not that I have ever had a straight male fall for me...wink wink. back to my issue....Resently I started to enjoy myself with a guy and three days later he wants to know where I have been and what I have been doing and why I havn't called him. Wait Wait why the 20 questions well here is my answer... when you are a simple guy and are independent enough to stay focused and dependent on only you, Men seem to be more attracted to you than you might want, or at least I don't. They get very damnding when the chase is on but after you give in to there chase because you , as an independent person, think it's time to settle.....DON'T SETTLE. Stay as you are and demand it back from them. if it seems that they are weak and are more attracted to your independence BEWARE they tend to flight after the catch pick the ones that are more like you in your independence, when you need someone they are more likely to be needed too. and when your not in the mood to be with anyone they too are more willing to say "Ok honey lets just stay home tonight and meet up tomorrow"....