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Hello to everyone and thank you all for taking the time to view my page. The lovely young ladies in the background are my blessings, my pride, and joy my daughters (ages 7, 11, & 13). I am a very prideful person. I love who I am and feel that no matter what I've gone through or what's yet to come, God has truly blessed me tremendously. I am also a very optimistic person and very goal driven. I am in love with life and living even when it seems that life isn't in love with me. My glass is always half full never half empty. I live by the rule that anything that is worth having is worth the working for and fighting for.
SELF I have self-esteem, self-pride, self-love, self-respect, and self-endurance. I am a self role model, self-motivator, and self-achiever. I give self-encouragement, self-assurance, self-stimulation ;-) , and self-quality time. This is only a portion of what I do for myself, Now think about this I believe in doing unto my other as I do unto myself. 
TO MY GIRLS To my daughters, I love you with all of my heart. I work hard to provide for you and want nothing but the very best for you. God blessed me with the charge to protect you. So not only do I live for you, but I would lie down my life for you. I see you all as my blessing, my angles, and my friends. There is no greater love then we have for one another, except the love God has for us and the love that we have for God. Therefore, we may stand only with one another, yet we are never alone. By: La'Mattie G. Copy Right 07/11/2002
   NEVER... "Never make someone a priority in your life, if you're only an option in theirs" If a woman wants you, nothing can keep her away. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay. Stop making excuses for a woman and her behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a woman before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the woman was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like she is stringing you along, then she probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from hers. Maintain boundaries in how a woman treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a woman know everything. She will use it against you later. You cannot change a woman's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make her feel she is more important than you are...even if she has more education or in a better job. Do not make her into a quasi-goddess. She is a woman, nothing more nothing less. Never let a woman define who you are. Never borrow someone else's woman. Oh Lord! If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you. A woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW her to treat you. All studs are NOT dogs and all fems are not b.i.o.t.c.h.e.s! You should not be the one doing all the bending....
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My personal angel... I have an angel that came from me. I really mean it. Seriously! He watches over my daughters and me. Really! "How do I know", you ask. "I'm crazy", so you think? I have my own personal angel you have to believe me... Well, let me tell you how I know, "I have my own personal angel". I carried him in my wound. I have my own personal angel, And I felt him grow & kick inside me. I have my own personal angel, whom I labored for until the doctor had to cut me. I have my own personal angel, whom I loved before he was born and wanted before conception. I have my own personal angel, From the wound to the cradle, I enjoyed watching him develop & grow. I have my own personal angel, who became sick one night. I have my own personal angel, that I took back and forward between his doctor and the ER. I have my own personal angel, that was so sick early one morning after leave the ER that he cried his self to sleep. I have my own personal angel, If I would have only known that, that would be the last time that I would hear him cry. I would have never stopped holding him that night. I have my own personal angel, his soul is in heaven now with ultimate parent, now he suffers no more. However, we/I still truly miss him being here. I have my own personal angel, who loves, cares, and watches over my daughters & me. Now do you believe me? Now do you now understand why I said, "I have my own personal angel"?  In Loving Memory Of Darrell Jr. (my son) 07/12/1998-10/31/1998 
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I said to a friend, "Sheryl, Dara is 14 teen!", and she said to me, "Don't it makes you feel old? ". Then as she was walking away, I thought to myself, "No, it makes me feel accomplished". <!--<!--[endif]-->-->
Because you truly deserve it....
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