I love the outdoors. My activities have been very restrained since my brain tumor in 2006 and I am still doing things to change my life and get it on the right track. I have been trying to workout and lose a little of the weight I gained and get into better shape so I like walks and working out at home. Um...reading, vids, movies, cooking, eating, dive bars...lol...
I love reading, meeting people, the outdoors... I also enjoy trying new things and social settings. I really enjoy public events and parties. I LOVE to learn.
I like lots of music...I'm a little out of the scene though. I own 200-300 CDs from pop and rock to punk and techno. It all depends on my mood.
I don't watch TV unless it is a series on DVD. I like Sex in the City, Family Guy, Simpsons, South Park, and Nip/Tuck.
I watch so many movies, but I love Milla Jovovich, Angelina Jolie, vampire movies, anime, horror movies, foreign films, some gay movies, independents...lots of movies do I watch...lol. Actually I used to work at a video store many moons ago and my brother did for quite awhile too.
I have a major variety of tastes as far as books. Love Anne Rice, Christopher Rice, murder and forensics case studies, psych books, SciFi's, and a couple of my favorites was "Travelling Light" and "Prayers For Bobby"...oh, and I liked Jane Yolen as a kid and she is still a personal fav.
My life has been pretty crazy over the last year. Almost died, brain tumor and stuff, I lost a very close loved one, got engaged, moved to Minneapolis, we broke up, he's moving out, I'm trying to find a new job... I'm trying to get my head to stop spinning...
"I am only one. But still, I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do." - Edward Everett Hale
For those that are really wondering, as far as guys go, I need someone who puts effort into getting to know me and win me over, if you can get me to at least go on an official date then I'll be fully open and put myself fully out there, but I am sick of being hurt. I give of myself fully and truly and I expect the same. I also want someone who wants kids and likes the idea of adopting two or three kids, siblings, so they don't get split up. Which leads me to my next thing, he must be charitable of the heart and actions and be proud and more attracted to me when I do those things. Family must be important to him and he should be around my age, but I will make exceptions if one proves themself. I want a real wedding someday down the road...when the time is right, there isn't a rush. I want to go to school and follow my dreams and I need someone who will nourish my dreams while sharing and pursuing theirs. I would prefer a Libra, we just get along the best. I want someone who is spiritual and open-minded of others' belief systems. I don't care what your faith is, just have one and respect others. I want a man who cuddles and is physically expressive. I want passionate sex and I want there to be an open-mindedness there as well, we should be able to talk about anything and not worry about judgement, nor feel obligated to do something because the other likes the idea of it, but definitely no icky stuff...k? LOL... I want respect, love, loyalty, unity, communication, someone who I can laugh with and who has a sense of humor... All of these things I look for are what I am willing to give in return. I don't want hookups or "fun" as some people label it as if it makes it any different. As of June '08, I just got out of a serious relationship that meant a lot to me, so it is going to take me time, but I just wanted to set the record straight for everyone (so to speak) and I also would really like to thank anyone who actually took the time to read this, that is really cool of you and means a lot also. Chemistry and attraction to one another is important, but so are all of these things, at least to me and they'll have to be to that man that I want a future with, that person that no matter our health, illness, financial situation, etc. we have and can lean on one another. Ok...sorry...totally done now. I just don't want anyone out there thinking that I am some %#&@$! just because I am gay or that I am looking for some rebound "fun" because I have been recently made single. SO this is all me and in what my interests lie. If you think this is you or you can respect someone who feels this way and thinks like this, msg me and let's be friends, otherwise, please move along. -Jay
